The Feast of Saint Stephen, the First Martyr and Some Reflection

 

Today is the Feast of Saint Stephen, the first martyr, offering some profound insights into the dynamics between divine truth and earthly powers.

Stephen, "filled with grace and power," performed wonders among the people. His wisdom, inspired by the Holy Spirit, was irrefutable, leading certain members of the synagogue to feel threatened. Their inability to counter his wisdom resulted in false accusations of blasphemy, culminating in Stephen's martyrdom by stoning. 

In the gospel, Jesus warns His disciples of impending persecutions: "You will be hated by all because of my name, but whoever endures to the end will be saved." He encourages reliance on the Spirit for wisdom and resilience in the face of trials. 

Stephen's martyrdom exemplifies the tension between proclaiming divine truth and confronting established earthly powers. His unwavering faith and eloquence, gifts of the Holy Spirit, threatened the religious authorities of his time, leading them to suppress his message through violence. This reflects a recurring pattern where those in power resist transformative truths that challenge their authority or disrupt the status quo.

In our contemporary world, similar dynamics persist. Voices advocating for justice, truth, and reforms often encounter resistance from established institutions or societal norms. Stephen's example calls us to steadfastness in our convictions, even when facing opposition. It reminds us that true discipleship may involve sacrifices, including the loss of comfort, reputation, or even life like Stephen.

Jesus' words in the Gospel further prepare us for such challenges, emphasizing reliance on the Spirit for guidance and strength. The promise of salvation for those who endure underscores the eternal perspective that should motivate believers. All over the world people are experiencing persecution especially in Syria and parts of the Middle East. 

Stephen was stoned to death because his proclamation of Jesus as the Messiah and his critique of the religious leaders' resistance to the Holy Spirit were perceived as blasphemous and a direct challenge to their earthly authority. His martyrdom serves as a testament to the cost of discipleship and the courage required to witness to the truth in the face of persecution. 

As we commemorate this Saint today, shall we pray for the courage to stand firm in our faith, the wisdom to speak truth with love, and the grace to endure challenges, trusting in the Holy Spirit for guidance and the promise of eternal life.

God bless

Pal Ronnie 

 

Boxing Day and a Visit to the CityMD

Today is a holiday in many places around the world—Boxing Day. The name originates from the tradition of unboxing Christmas gifts on this day. While I didn’t have to work, I did visit City MD, an urgent care facility, to complete some work-related physicals. I had mentioned this plan briefly a few days ago, but the experience turned out to be far more meaningful than I anticipated.

When I arrived, the place was packed—a stark reminder that not everyone enjoyed a joyful or healthy Christmas yesterday. The sheer number of sick individuals was a sobering testament to the fragility of life. The waiting area was a sea of masked faces, constant coughing, and an overwhelming sense of discomfort. It was impossible not to feel the weight of the collective unease.

 I wished I could have waited in my car, entering only when it was my turn, but there wasn’t a system in place to notify people. Instead, I endured the unsettling environment, hoping to get through it quickly.  

Amidst the chaos, I had an unexpected encounter with a former colleague from my time at Good Samaritan Hospital. Let’s call her Dee. Despite the crowded room, I immediately recognized her. She was pleasantly surprised that I remembered her name and the floor she worked on. During our brief exchange, she shared that she’s still at Good Samaritan but has since transitioned to a different department.  

This nostalgic moment took me back to a chapter of my career I hadn’t thought about in a while. It reminded me of the enduring connections we forge in our professional lives, which can resurface in the most unexpected places.  

When my name was called, a young woman escorted me to Room 3. She pointed to the familiar chair, and I sat down as she explained the process. The routine was one I knew well, having undergone the same physicals just this past August. She worked efficiently and soon left, saying someone else would be in for specimens before the physician arrived. 

 Shortly after, a personable young woman entered. She introduced herself as Cee, a University of Michigan graduate with a neuroscience background I would later learn. She shared her aspirations of attending medical school, and her passion was evident as she handled her tasks with care and professionalism.  Oh yes, I make it a point to engage with and get to know the people I interact with.

Finally, the provider came in and completed the physicals. She was kind and thorough, ensuring everything was in order. I also got to learn that she was from Iran. Her interactions with me were impeccable. 

After four long hours, I left the facility with a mix of relief and reflection. The sluggish pace of urgent care and employee medicine was frustrating, but the experience served as a poignant reminder of the connections we build and the humanity we encounter in unexpected moments.  

Wishing everyone a healthy Christmas and holiday season.  

Stay well and safe

God bless,  

Pal Ronnie

A Cold Freezing Winter Piece

Yesterday, on Christmas day, a friend from Ghana asked me, “Has it snowed yet?” I replied, “Yes, twice already, and the weather has been frigid cold ever since.” 

She wanted to know just how cold it was, so I stepped into my car this morning and discovered something fascinating: the water I had left in the car the day before had turned to ice. I snapped a picture and sent it to her.  

I explained to her that if I had left the water in the refrigerator indoors, it wouldn’t have turned to ice. The temperature inside the car was comparable to that of a freezer, not just a fridge.

That simple moment made me realize how intriguing winter can be for those who have never experienced it. For many in regions like back home, West Africa, the concept of temperatures so cold that water freezes is hard to imagine. It’s a reminder of the stark contrasts between life in different parts of the world.  

Winter, where I now call home, isn't even as harsh as it can be further north, like in Canada, where temperatures regularly dip even lower. Still, the icy winds and snowy days can be challenging to endure. Before moving to the United States, I was worried about how I would cope with the cold. But over the years, I’ve learned to embrace those three wonderful months of winter as part of the cycle of seasons.  

That said, I do have my favorites: Autumn or Fall and Spring, with their milder temperatures and vibrant colors, are always a delight.  

To my friend in Ghana and anyone else unfamiliar with winter’s chill, I hope this offers some perspective. 

Embrace and appreciate the beauty of your own climate wherever you are   

Stay blessed,  

Merry Christmas 

Pal Ronnie

Oh Emmanuel, Hear Our Prayers: A Christmas Day Reflection

I hope your Christmas morning is wonderful. I went to Mass at St. Augustine's Parish in New City, New York. It was beautiful and the music was amazing. 

As we gather this Christmas, it’s natural and tradition to ask: “Did you get what you asked Santa for?” But as we grow older, we realize the things we truly aspire to receive transcend the material. Gone are the days when electronics or toys satisfied our deepest wishes. Now, we find ourselves praying for peace—peace in our homes, our neighborhoods, our country, and across the world.  

It’s impossible to ignore the turmoil surrounding us daily: the conflict in Israel and Gaza, the ongoing war in Ukraine and Russia, and the divisions we see even here at home. Pain and resentment seem to weave through the very fabric of humanity, leaving us yearning for a reprieve. 

The name “Emmanuel”, as the Gospel (Good news) reminds us, means “God is with us.” It’s a profound assurance that Christ’s humble birth brings the peace and hope we desperately seek. His presence among us is the gift that promises healing to our broken hearts, our anxieties, and the seasonal struggles many face: depression, loneliness, and chronic illness etc.  

This Christmas, may the birth of Christ bring us all peace and joy. May His presence heal our wounds and remind us that, even in darkness, God is with us.  

He's here and it's with prayers that we will have the grace to open our hearts for him to come and dwell in us. 

May God bless you and Merry Christmas to you and your family.  

Pal Ronnie  

Hello Snow-White Christmas: A Day’s Reflection

After a long work trip to the East, it feels good to be back home. There’s nothing quite like the familiarity of your own space, even if it’s blanketed by a fresh layer of snow. 

This morning, I woke up to find my car and driveway filled with snow—a hallmark of a white Christmas. Clearing it out doubled as my workout for the day before I headed to CityMD for some work related physicals.

One of the challenges of my line of work is the constant movement-Hello Mr. Momentum. You’re always on the go, which can make moments of rest feel fleeting. It’s Christmas Eve, and as I stepped into that urgent care, I was greeted by a packed room filled with sick people. The sight was a stark reminder of how fragile health can be, especially during the holiday season. Though my visit was brief, it left an impression. Everyone had a face mask on and most of them were coughing-a flu season upon us. 

As we approach Christmas, I want to take a moment to extend my warmest wishes to you and your loved ones. May your holidays be filled with joy, love, and good health.

Tomorrow, I’ll be attending Mass, a cherished tradition for me, and I plan to share a reflection afterward.

Wishing you a Merry Christmas and blessings in abundance.

Warm regards,
Pal Ron

The Mangione Case: A Courtroom Drama Unfolds

Today, December 23rd, 2024, marked a significant moment for my working trip and the unfolding of a case that has captivated public attention—the Mangione trial. 

Wrapping up my working trip to eastern New York was both fulfilling and chaotic. Traveling for work is always a blend of excitement and exhaustion. Meeting new people and immersing myself in different environments is rewarding, but the inevitable packing, cleaning, and enduring the infamous traffic on the Long Island Expressway (LIE) can be overwhelming. For those familiar with it, the congestion is often horrendous in both directions.

In the midst of closing out my trip, I managed to catch a glimpse of the Mangione case proceedings. I have been following this case closely since December 4th, partly due to my interest in healthcare and market psychology. On the day the CEO was tragically killed, the parent company's stock United Healthcare Group inexplicably soared, trading near its all-time high of over $611 per share. This anomaly immediately drew my attention. Never in my experience observing markets have I seen such an unusual response, a corporate leader assassinated, yet the stock market reacting with a bullish surge.

Fast forward to today: the accused, Luigi, was formally arraigned in court, facing a barrage of charges, including terrorism. As anticipated, he entered a plea of not guilty. Photographs from the courtroom captured him smiling, a jarring image for such a serious occasion. It is also worth noting that Luigi and his lawyer appeared to be wearing almost identical outfits, with matching colors. It was a striking detail that caught the attention of nearly everyone in the courtroom.  

His attorney, Karen Anigfilo, did not hold back in her remarks. Addressing the courtroom, she criticized the media and public for prematurely condemning her client. "Let me remind everyone that Luigi is entitled to the presumption of innocence until proven guilty in a court of law," she asserted firmly.  

Anigfolo also took aim at New York City Mayor Eric Adams, accusing him of orchestrating “the longest perp walk in history” to make a spectacle of her client. She added, "This entire process has been more about public theatrics than justice." Referring to Adams' background as a former police officer now embroiled in his own legal battles, she remarked on the irony of his actions. In his defense, Adams has emphasized his commitment to sending a strong message to potential criminals about New York's zero tolerance for violent acts.  

Outside the courthouse, the scene was equally charged. Despite the frigid temperatures—nearly zero degrees in some parts of the state—protesters gathered, holding signs declaring “Free Luigi.” The support for a man accused of such a heinous crime left me baffled. How could people rally behind someone implicated in the public execution of a CEO? This remains beyond my comprehension.  

In court, Anigfilo aptly described the media frenzy and public attention as a "spectacle." She decried the perceived unfair treatment of her client, framing it as a challenge to due process and justice. The judge, after hearing her statements and Luigi’s plea, adjourned the case, setting the next court date for February.  

As this case develops, I will continue to monitor and share updates. The Mangione trial is shaping up to be not only a legal battle but also a fascinating commentary on our society's relationship with crime, justice, and public perception.  

And I don't know about you, I can't wait for a TV drama in future based on this incident. It will be a wonderful TV series especially for the future generations to come. 

Stay safe, and God bless you.

Pal Ronnie 

The End of My First Adventure to the East of New York

 

Traveling to Eastern Long Island for work these past few months  has been an incredible experience. It’s amazing how just two hours drive east can feel so different. Time really flies, three months passed in the blink of an eye, and now I’m heading back to Rockland.  

The drive on the Long Island Expressway (LIE) was intense, with bumper-to-bumper traffic, but I made it. Over the next few weeks, I will have some downtime, and there’s something exciting on the horizon about work. I’ll share more about it when the time comes, so stay tuned for I will be posting updates also.  

God bless!  

I remain your pal, 

Ronnie Law 

Public Support for Mangione Continues to Raises Eyebrows Amid Terrorism Charges

Luigi Mangione, currently detained at the “Metropolitan Detention Center”, is facing a slew of charges, including “terrorism”. Sharing the same facility as controversial figure "Lube Master" -P. Diddy, his case has drawn significant public attention and polarized opinions.  

What’s particularly striking is the overwhelming support Mangione continues to receive from the public. Despite the severity of the charges against him, his crowdfunding campaign has amassed over $180,000.00 to date, signaling strong advocacy for his release.  

This case highlights a growing divide between legal proceedings and the overall public sentiment. As the funds continue to pour in, one can’t help but wonder: What does this say about “the court of public opinion” and its influence on high-profile cases?  

Let that sink in.  

I'll continue to follow this closely and update you as we go.

I remain your pal,

Ronnie Law 

My Reflections on the 4th Week of Advent

Today, Sunday December 22nd, 2024, my initial plans didn’t work out, so I decided to attend the 11:00 am Mass at St. Lawrence the Martyr Church in Sayville for the 4th week of Advent celebration. It was the last Sunday mass before Christmas and it was an epic experience, and I felt truly blessed by the Word and connections with fellow Believers in Christ.  

The first reading was from the Prophet Micah (Micah 5:1-4), prophesied the coming of the Messiah, a ruler whose kingship would be like none before, one marked by peace, justice, and righteousness. Micah’s vision was of a world without war, hatred, or cronyism, and his prophecy pointed to the Lord’s divine rule. 

The second reading from (Hebrews 10:5-10) emphasized our Lord Jesus doing the will of the Father. It reminds us to reflect: Do we hear God’s voice in our lives amid the distractions of modern living? Through prayer and meditation on the Word of God, we must strive to tune into His presence rather than tuning it out. Ask God for His will to be done in us. 

Then the Gospel reading (Luke 1:39-45) highlighted Mary, the Mother of our Lord, visiting Elizabeth. Elizabeth declared, “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb.” I know Catholics have been accused over the years for worshipping Mary. We don't worship her, we honor her as the Mother of our Lord, Jesus Christ, the Messiah. 

The sight of Mary brought profound joy to Elizabeth because she was carrying the eternal Word Himself, Jesus Christ. Even John the Baptist, still in the mother's womb, leapt for joy. Just imagine that!  

As we celebrate Christ’s birth this Christmas, we are called to bring similar joy to every home we visit and every person we meet out there in the world wherever we are. This joy in us is made possible through the Holy Eucharist we receive at Mass and the Word with carry in our hearts. Once the bread and wine are consecrated, transubstantiation, they become the true Body and Blood of Christ. Receiving this sacrament therefore empowers us to be disciples and missionaries, sharing Christ’s peace and presence with the world around us.  

While giving gifts at Christmas is wonderful, the best gifts we can give is by forgiving others for their wrongs done to us, seeking the opportunities for confessions of our wrongs to God's will for us, and loving wholeheartedly. By bringing joy and peace to those around us: family, friends, and our colleagues, we truly reflect the spirit of Christmas, the birth of Christ our savior.  

Merry Christmas 

Go in peace! 

God bless!

Ronnie Law

"Do the Best You Can with What You Have": A Patient's Profound Statement Worth Pondering

Today at work, I encountered a patient whose words deeply resonated with me. He was in his 80s, admitted to the hospital with a gastrointestinal bleed. The plan was to perform a colonoscopy for further diagnostics, but his bowel prep leading up to the test hadn’t been adequate, delaying the procedure. As a result, he had to continue fasting under the hospital’s NPO (nothing by mouth) protocol.

When I entered his room, I saw frustration etched on his face. He told me he hadn’t eaten in four days and wanted to know when the test was going to happen. He was hungry, beyond frustrated, and longing for this ordeal to end so he could eat and, hopefully, go home. As he poured out his frustrations, a call came from the endoscopy department, informing us that his procedure was on track to happen soon and they would send for him in about fifteen minutes.  

Hearing this, his mood shifted dramatically. Relief immediately replaced his frustration. He smiled but soon needed assistance with his urinal, remarking on how life had stripped away his independence:  

“Life is so strange. You get sick, everything falls apart, and you still die.”  

His words hit me hard. They encapsulated the fragility of life and the inevitability of our human condition. Yet, in his vulnerability, he left me with a piece of wisdom to ponder:  

“No matter what stage of life you’re in, be happy. Do your best. Love, forgive those who cause you pain, and move on. At the end of the day, our lives don’t amount to much—but they could, if we share them meaningfully with those around us.”  

We don’t need to be 80 years old to understand the truth in his statement and outlook on life. Life is fleeting, but it can be rich and meaningful if we focus on what truly matters: connection, kindness, and love.  

If there’s one thing this job has taught me, it’s that life is dynamic.  

In the end, his test was completed, and he was finally able to eat a meal. Shortly after, he was discharged. Before he left, he told me how appreciative he was of the care he received. I couldn’t help but tell him how much his earlier statement had touched me and that I had written about it. To my surprise, he asked me to share the piece with him.  

Look at that, folks. This is why I go to work, even on days when I don’t feel like it.  

I just wanted to share this moment with you, hoping it inspires you as it did me.  

As you know, for HIPAA reasons, I cannot share more details about the patient, but you get the message.  

God bless you all,  

Pal Ronnie